Are You a Project?
Many years ago, at my invitation, I had breakfast with another pastor. Instead of pouring into him and enjoying his company, I used the time to whine about a church problem. The man abruptly interrupted me mid-sentence and said, “I didn’t come here to listen to your problems. Frankly, I don’t want to hear about them.” Then, he got up and left. Admittedly, I was embarrassed and my feelings were hurt. Anger quickly followed. “Who does he think he is?” I thought. “What an arrogant, uncaring pastor.” Was the man rude? Yes. Did his approach leave something to be desired? Absolutely! But out of that emotionally painful experience the Lord showed me that I had become a “project.” I was all too willing to tell anyone who would listen about my woes. I was not enjoyable to be around because I allowed my personal hurts to define me. I wasn’t interested in changing my outlook or moving past my pain. In this particular case, I wa...